A Place Just to Be Me
Going away to summer camp for the first time could give any 9-year-old a
few butterflies. For a 9-year-old in a wheelchair due to severe cerebral
palsy, the prospect of leaving the security of home for the great
outdoors was downright unsettling.
Fast-forward 13 years.
Michael
Griggs, once that frightened little 9-year-old, is now 22 and a
seasoned veteran of AbilityFirst’s Camp Paivika summer program for
adults and children with disabilities.
He has been making annual trips to the camp’s location ever since,
experiencing a sense of freedom there inspired not only by the stunning
vistas of mountains, sky, majestic trees and valley views, he says, but
by the fact that at Camp Paivika, “I can just be me.”
“That’s a welcome change,” Michael observes. “Sometimes I try so hard to
overcompensate for my disability that I don’t let people see the real
me. But at camp that is not an issue. Everybody there gets to see the
real Michael.”
That was a revelation that Michael felt at the very beginning of his
Camp Paivika experience.
“When I first went there, it was the first time that I actually saw
myself in a positive light. I was like, maybe I don’t have to always
focus on my disability. Maybe I have a lot to offer people in spite of
my disability.”
“It was the first time,” he says, “that I learned that your disability
only defines you if you let it.”
The opportunity to socialize and converse with peers is another draw for
many campers like Michael. Gregarious, with a philosophical bent, a head
full of ideas and a gift for writing, he has made long-term friends at
camp, particularly among Paivika staff.
People with disabilities, Michael notes, “just want to be accepted for
who we are, and we don’t always get that from regular society. Camp
Paivika is a place where we know that we are valued and that we matter.”
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